Man, what is it with Dads who get remarried and totally act like they arent Dads anymore? My (our) kids are grown and have kids of their own. Both girls have driven great distances to be in the area that their Dad lives in and visit. Wouldnt you think he would make them feel completely welcome? Wouldnt you think that would also mean he would make sure his wife made those families feel completely welcome? At some point those grown "girls" are going to realize they have their hands full with their own fantastic families and they are going to quit doing the heavy lifting in that relationship with their Dad. "Just saying...."